Some of the most ignorant and frustrating assertions I hear
from white people start off with the familiar line of, “Well, if white people did that….” before going on
to declare how “it just wouldn’t stand!” or “there’d be a scandal!” or, most
candidly, “we’d be the racists!”
And I’ll admit, when I heard this from various family
members growing up, in my ignorance, I agreed. Because, at the time, with my
frighteningly scarce knowledge of African-American history and institutional,
systemic racism that pervades our nation today, it seemed to make perfect
sense. Why do African-Americans have an entire black pageant to themselves? Why
is that not racist if it would be
racist for whites to do the same? Why do blacks get to have BET without it
being racist, but if we ever created a White Entertainment Television, the
country would be in uproar? These phrases were said aphoristically, all from
the lips of white people, and without sufficient context, I thought they were
right.
One of the reasons I never considered that there was racism
at play here was how my parents had raised me to regard and treat all people as
equals – people of different races, genders, socioeconomic classes - you name
it - my parents made sure we knew that we were not above anyone else. It turns
out, to my dismay, that even white people who feel true disdain for racism and
teach equality to their children are indeed not immune to the blind spots our
culture produces in us. I had a very cut-and-dry view of racism growing up: you
were either a blatant, raging, heartless, idiot racist, or you had not a racist
bone in your body. I thought I – and my family – fell into the latter category.
In the past several years, I have seen how much more complicated and nuanced it
is. If even black Americans can internalize racism, I will certainly never be
rid of its stubborn effects, despite my honest beliefs in equality and my
desire to see justice and equity accomplished.
When, at the beginning of the semester, Professor McKinney
rattled off a list of societies and groups that systematically excluded black
people – resulting in the formation of black societies/groups/etc. by black
people, for black people – it finally clicked. For the past several years, I
have been pushing back against white assertions such as, “well, if there was a
White Entertainment Television, we’d be called racist! It’s such a double
standard!” with comments such as, “well, have you considered that television is white entertainment television? There’s
no need for White Entertainment Television; it exists without being named.”
Now, I know that there is a long, specific, and accessible history of whites
excluding blacks from literally anything and everything. This is what has
prompted the formation of things like black churches, black fraternities and
sororities, black honors societies, black academic journals, etc. The formation
of these groups and institutions by African-Americans were and are not random
or out of prejudice, as many whites would believe – the formation of these
groups were the only available option.
I completely understand your pervious view on cut and dry racism. I went to a public high school and a more rural part of Alabama. I had several people in my class who were openly racist against the small number of black people that also went to school with us. I thought racism was either present or not, such as when my 80 year old grandmother would use racial slurs when my sisters and I were kids. Now, many years later, I understand that racism is a spectrum, and includes my parents when they chime in with "No, Cole, All Lives Matter." I could never make them understand that things such as Black Lives Matter or even BET are not devices to elevate black people over white people. Instead, they are used to give black people a voice when all other mediums are used and created by white people for white people.
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